I have always dreamed of the the man that would steal my heart and this man is definitely "it" for me : O) I told him once that he is NOTHING that I ever expected, but EVERYTHING that I'd ever dreamed of and I am excited about our future together.Having never been married, this is all new and exciting to me.One is ready to date again whenever solitude gives way to loneliness.It is natural to want a partner, but the partner is not a substitute.“One should wait until THEY feel they are ready. Everything about him is perfect except for one thing: He’s a widower. Is he ready to move on and start a new life with me? If the relationship works out, will he love me as much as the late wife?These and a thousand other questions go through your head. The purpose of this book isn’t to discourage you from dating a widower.My widower and his wife had a wonderful 18 year marriage and I know that the grieving process was a difficult one, and still continues to the this day.
For me, it was 18 months before I considered dating again.
I’ve also corresponded with hundreds of women who have fallen in love with men who claimed to be ready to move on but, in the end, were not.