It is a fantasy based on superficial ideas that drives people to make the wrong choices, especially when they are aware of the need for an enduring, mutually satisfying, fun filled and happy relationship! Our exclusive dating service will not deliver your dream person to your front door on a plate!The fact that you are reading this probably proves that you now know that hanging out in pubs, gyms, sports clubs, church events, blind dates etc., can sometimes be fruitless and exhausting. The Only Social Club will however help facilitate and introduce you to likely matches – you need to invest effort and time in your dates because the final decision is yours. It is an absolute fact that chemistry happens in 90 seconds flat – you are either intrigued enough to interact, or not – as all your radar and instincts compute the attributes of that person.Starting over at age 50 is a daunting task but I am embracing the chance to reinvent myself but still keeping the fundamentals that define who I am.I realize I have to help myself and I am giving it my best shot – this is ‘me’ time! I also know you cannot present me successfully out there unless I put my best forward, and I am losing weight at last.Yet, since its South African inception in the mid 90s, online dating has ballooned into a third-party matchmaker consulted by more than a million people each year.While no comprehensive study’s been conducted locally since Ramon Thomas, a Netucation online behaviour expert, collected data from nine different digital dating sites in 2004, a present-day look at the largest and most expansive online dating company’s database indicates that, at the very least, the virtual platform’s growth is ‘going steady’.You could also end up quite discouraged after many “cold” encounters that can leave you feeling quite desolate.It is a fact that it takes more than shared interests and hobbies to attract people.
It is up to you to take the time to develop the bond between yourself and your chosen one.
So we are back to the drawing board and I will communicate on a more regular basis and not go into winter hibernation .