Asking your boyfriend these questions could save you from the heartache of a broken engagement or, worse, a future divorce.
” (question 24) and even, “When did you last cry in front of another person – or by yourself? The questions, which are designed to foster intimacy by creating an atmosphere of mutual vulnerability, become increasingly probing, taking us beyond the limits of our everyday, sharing-things-with-strangers-at-the-bus-stop comfort barriers. While it might be your gut instinct, it is best to forgo that technique. Ultimately he’s trying to figure himself out just like your kids. He may fumble his words a little because he is learning how to understand his feelings and put them into words. Of course, use your best manners and tact with these sensitive questions.