It was a group of friends meeting another group of friends with everyone in good spirits, a lot easier than sitting in a bar staring at each other doing an interview process.” While Tinder offers quick access to dates, just having that choice and option and ease doesn’t mean that will suit everyone.Lee, like many people, admits to not being “the most confident person on dates. You know yourself; at a festival everyone is in good form, it’s really relaxed and you mix with loads of people anyway.” A second date came sooner than expected when Fortune, perhaps after a few shandies, bought a ticket to the second day of the festival that night and met up with Lee and her friends again the following day. “If I was to go back to my younger dating self,” Lee says, “I would say definitely make the first move. You’ve nothing to lose by sending a message.” How do you cope with losing a partner and the difficulties of finding love after?
Relationship advice can often feel gimmicky or manufactured, a series of unrealistic instructions or muddled cliches. What lessons do people experiencing different relationship scenarios want to pass on, from making Tinder work for you, to dealing with the death of a partner, from having a baby to navigating a whirlwind romance?If you’re looking for a partner, how do you turn a Tinder date into a relationship?